1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,460 And then there was an email that was sent out or email stating that they couldn't 2 00:00:08,460 --> 00:00:13,140 make Friday and then I replied saying use the calendar and schedule a new 3 00:00:13,140 --> 00:00:18,260 time and I would expect an update and I wasn't aware of a new meeting. 4 00:00:18,260 --> 00:00:22,980 No there wasn't a new meeting it was the one she scheduled and I said neither 5 00:00:22,980 --> 00:00:27,300 party has agreed to something before I'm going to hold both meeting I I sent all 6 00:00:27,300 --> 00:00:31,780 of that I'm going to honor both meetings I honor that one I'm honoring this one 7 00:00:31,780 --> 00:00:36,540 and I will inform why didn't we have one meeting and I'm into what I said in 8 00:00:36,540 --> 00:00:41,580 the emails I will inform of how the meetings go because you guys both agree 9 00:00:41,580 --> 00:00:48,460 what do you mean we don't agree so you're making a presumptuous statement there 10 00:00:48,460 --> 00:00:53,460 is an email sent out the night before that said they can't make Friday I 11 00:00:53,460 --> 00:00:57,860 replied and said it's too short of a notice but use the calendar and set it 12 00:00:57,860 --> 00:01:05,260 time yeah so that's where it was left off with me until you told me that the 13 00:01:05,260 --> 00:01:08,740 meeting occurred and that you're going to honor both meetings my question is 14 00:01:08,740 --> 00:01:12,140 why wasn't I pulled into that meeting because there's a presumption of non 15 00:01:12,140 --> 00:01:17,940 agreement but being accused of something and being something are two 16 00:01:17,940 --> 00:01:24,740 different things so why wasn't I included in the meeting notice allowed to be 17 00:01:24,740 --> 00:01:33,180 present when my child was present so because the meeting was scheduled and you 18 00:01:33,180 --> 00:01:38,620 was not aware of the meeting rescheduling I did not get a meeting in 19 00:01:38,620 --> 00:01:42,860 I was a reschedule she scheduled a different meeting there was no reschedule 20 00:01:42,860 --> 00:01:50,660 correct she scheduled a meeting so my meeting went out to everybody I'm asking 21 00:01:50,660 --> 00:01:55,060 why her meeting did not go out to everybody I don't have a meeting invite for 22 00:01:55,060 --> 00:02:00,060 her scheduled meeting okay and I'm just curious what the policies are the 23 00:02:00,060 --> 00:02:05,420 procedures going for what to expect you know what that one I will say because 24 00:02:05,420 --> 00:02:10,260 you said I can't make it I didn't send it I think I said I can't make it I 25 00:02:10,260 --> 00:02:14,340 said it was disingenuous it was too short of a notice that it's difficult to 26 00:02:14,340 --> 00:02:19,100 make because I am five hours away I do run my own companies and to somebody 27 00:02:19,100 --> 00:02:23,100 canceling a meeting an hour before and trying to schedule it later that day is 28 00:02:23,100 --> 00:02:27,700 a challenge I just need to know a time to be given an opportunity to move my 29 00:02:27,700 --> 00:02:35,300 meetings around but I wasn't given that opportunity so my question is are we 30 00:02:35,300 --> 00:02:41,140 going to do this is this is what I should expect for the rest of the year if 31 00:02:41,140 --> 00:02:48,140 you guys agreed us a meeting date maybe I should say but you had a calendar that's 32 00:02:48,140 --> 00:02:53,060 the thing is I used your calendar link I found a time that was available on your 33 00:02:53,060 --> 00:03:01,220 calendar I proposed a time the conflict is there was an email that did not use 34 00:03:01,220 --> 00:03:09,380 your calendar I replied back and said use the calendar so if the calendar would 35 00:03:09,380 --> 00:03:15,060 have been used I should have been notified of that meeting do you see what I'm 36 00:03:15,060 --> 00:03:20,540 getting at I do so there this is a high conflict but the conflict is on one 37 00:03:20,540 --> 00:03:27,860 side I'm excluded from a lot of things and I find out in the 11th hour about 38 00:03:27,860 --> 00:03:32,860 activities and then I'm supposed to be making decisions and if this does in 39 00:03:32,860 --> 00:03:36,420 fact continue escalating like it has the last four years of being 30 plus 40 00:03:36,420 --> 00:03:42,340 absences and it goes to truancy as a parent I'm held responsible but yet I don't 41 00:03:42,340 --> 00:03:50,540 have any input as a parent you see where I'm in my position if this continues 42 00:03:50,540 --> 00:03:54,740 escalating I will be held accountable for something that I have no ability to 43 00:03:54,740 --> 00:03:59,260 influence or input because I'm treated as an afterthought there's a lot of 44 00:03:59,260 --> 00:04:03,220 presumptions of my position but the position is not coming from me I followed 45 00:04:03,220 --> 00:04:10,940 your instructions a meeting went out and she decided to come up there in 46 00:04:10,940 --> 00:04:14,900 person and then you guys called asley and you guys have my number and you 47 00:04:14,900 --> 00:04:19,300 could have easily called me and just given me an opportunity but I wasn't 48 00:04:19,300 --> 00:04:23,420 given an opportunity yeah she replied to all and said asley are not available 49 00:04:23,420 --> 00:04:28,140 7.30 on Friday we can meet at 3.30 tomorrow Thursday or Friday when I didn't 50 00:04:28,140 --> 00:04:34,980 hear back within 24 hours I it was almost 2023 or we can be specific but she 51 00:04:34,980 --> 00:04:39,700 saw my reply to her it's correct and we're meeting yes all of those so she 52 00:04:39,700 --> 00:04:45,100 proposed times over a three day period and I said just use the calendar a last 53 00:04:45,100 --> 00:04:51,140 minute change is disingenuous but use the calendar yeah she didn't use the 54 00:04:51,140 --> 00:04:55,620 calendar and since she came up in person you guys had an ad hot meeting or 55 00:04:55,620 --> 00:04:58,860 might be a verbally coordinated meeting and then you guys chose to call the 56 00:04:58,860 --> 00:05:05,460 child no there's the meeting is sent out it said I have a meeting at 3.30 on 57 00:05:05,460 --> 00:05:12,500 Wednesday and I was I included on that she she sent it to you to all of us no 58 00:05:12,500 --> 00:05:18,900 your calendar the same invitation that I got for this zoom meeting no no she said 59 00:05:18,900 --> 00:05:25,860 that okay my ex said something about it time I saw that in a proposed time the 60 00:05:25,860 --> 00:05:32,500 official meeting is with the school on your calendar as I said and I have two 61 00:05:32,500 --> 00:05:37,660 reservations and two different times I'm sending you guys and you guys can 62 00:05:37,660 --> 00:05:42,980 choose which times and I will add you both and I will add you both okay that's all 63 00:05:42,980 --> 00:05:48,060 I'm asking is I was not included in a meeting invite for yesterday or Wednesday 64 00:05:48,060 --> 00:05:52,540 whatever the meeting happened make people show up to both so I will that's okay 65 00:05:52,540 --> 00:05:56,420 yeah I'm going to send it to both because what you're saying is the biggest 66 00:05:56,420 --> 00:06:01,740 problem here is I was not given the opportunity to attend correct I assumed you 67 00:06:01,740 --> 00:06:06,340 knew when she said Wednesday at 3.30 and when I said you both have made 68 00:06:06,340 --> 00:06:10,540 different times and that is an assumption and I will just add you both on to both 69 00:06:10,540 --> 00:06:16,500 of your calendar invites yeah I all meetings with my child I would like at least 70 00:06:16,500 --> 00:06:20,860 an opportunity to participate especially something like this it has been an 71 00:06:20,860 --> 00:06:26,100 ongoing issue in a high conflict situation where I'm always put in a 72 00:06:26,100 --> 00:06:31,100 position to find out after the fact and this and just to share with you this is 73 00:06:31,100 --> 00:06:36,020 what happens is there's always last minutes which creates frustration is any 74 00:06:36,020 --> 00:06:40,780 natural human response to be is when your child is having issues but you're not 75 00:06:40,780 --> 00:06:47,180 included my reaction is a natural reaction of frustration but if she's over 76 00:06:47,180 --> 00:06:52,700 there saying look he's doing this see he's frustrated he's angry he's upset 77 00:06:52,700 --> 00:06:57,140 well of course I am because I'm being excluded I'm watching my child go from 78 00:06:57,140 --> 00:07:04,540 straight A's and gifted and talented to struggling I'm it's September and we're 79 00:07:04,540 --> 00:07:11,340 getting a notice for a committee hearing in September you see do you see where 80 00:07:11,340 --> 00:07:19,380 my issues are yeah and the fact that she's claiming to be at a university how do 81 00:07:19,380 --> 00:07:24,540 you go how do you plan airline tickets fly to another state do a tour of a 82 00:07:24,540 --> 00:07:30,700 campus and your school doesn't know the father doesn't know nobody knows you see 83 00:07:30,700 --> 00:07:34,780 where these issues come in my kids being taken out of state and tour of 84 00:07:34,780 --> 00:07:38,540 campuses and I don't know she didn't coordinate with the school if she would 85 00:07:38,540 --> 00:07:41,460 coordinate with school coordinator I would have been given a heads up but I'm 86 00:07:41,460 --> 00:07:46,940 being excluded until after the fact and then I have to clean up the mess and I 87 00:07:46,940 --> 00:07:49,940 have to have these contentious conversations with you which puts me in a bad 88 00:07:49,940 --> 00:07:54,900 connotation with you but I'm expressing my frustration that I'm finding out 89 00:07:54,900 --> 00:08:02,980 after the fact all the time and it just coincidentally this particular 90 00:08:02,980 --> 00:08:08,060 university is 15 minutes from my son's house and my son's youngest child 91 00:08:08,060 --> 00:08:15,020 turned a year old that same weekend so did she go to a campus tour or did they 92 00:08:15,020 --> 00:08:20,380 just go to a birthday party to celebrate our grandchild's first birthday 93 00:08:20,380 --> 00:08:24,300 because all the tours at that campus I've called there's no official record 94 00:08:24,300 --> 00:08:28,460 there's an email communication but all their tours are done on Saturdays not 95 00:08:28,460 --> 00:08:35,780 Fridays so I'm being left in the dark I'm not given an opportunity to 96 00:08:35,780 --> 00:08:39,020 participate until after the fact and it puts me in a contentious situation with 97 00:08:39,020 --> 00:08:44,700 school administration and I'm gonna say like I've said in the years past if you 98 00:08:44,700 --> 00:08:49,740 guys just communicate and keep an open line let me sort out my conflict 99 00:08:49,740 --> 00:08:55,220 issues with my ex but if you guys run interference and you try to parent us by 100 00:08:55,220 --> 00:08:58,820 separating the children and having two different conversations you're in 101 00:08:58,820 --> 00:09:02,980 fact putting yourself in the middle and I'm asking you not to do that I'm 102 00:09:02,980 --> 00:09:07,180 asking you guys to follow the rules and just schedule a meeting use the 103 00:09:07,180 --> 00:09:13,460 official communication and it just if there's conflict let it come out let 104 00:09:13,460 --> 00:09:18,620 us deal with it because I haven't I have not had a meaningful conversation 105 00:09:18,620 --> 00:09:23,700 since April 20th with my child she stopped by for a couple of hours I was 106 00:09:23,700 --> 00:09:28,300 denied access I have not seen my kid and I drive up to Tyler Texas every 107 00:09:28,300 --> 00:09:34,140 other Friday I sit there I wait for an hour I call the police they come they 108 00:09:34,140 --> 00:09:40,060 take a police report we have 22 cases and 93 days of denied access to my 109 00:09:40,060 --> 00:09:47,420 child and this was my baby girl this was my daddy's girl and through parental 110 00:09:47,420 --> 00:09:53,580 alienation and isolation all this stuff I'm now the monster in her life and now 111 00:09:53,580 --> 00:09:57,060 what she's doing is doing the exact same techniques and using triangulation in 112 00:09:57,060 --> 00:10:01,860 the school system by creating these scenarios where I'm normally going to be 113 00:10:01,860 --> 00:10:08,020 frustrated but I have to compose myself to present this logically so that you 114 00:10:08,020 --> 00:10:13,940 don't just see an angry dad but I'm frustrated yeah I have the 115 00:10:13,940 --> 00:10:19,220 custody of all my kids and all of them let my 23-year-old make in 180 116 00:10:19,220 --> 00:10:25,260 thousand dollars all my kids do very well except for this one and this one's 117 00:10:25,260 --> 00:10:30,620 academics plummeted in mother's presence she's isolated from her siblings 118 00:10:30,620 --> 00:10:34,900 she's isolated from her dad she's isolated from every part of my family and 119 00:10:34,900 --> 00:10:38,900 she's been dropping down now she sees the therapist on a weekly basis and the 120 00:10:38,900 --> 00:10:44,300 therapist can tell if you read all the letters but because of her age and because 121 00:10:44,300 --> 00:10:52,860 of all this stuff there is no remedy so I'm asking you guys if you schedule 122 00:10:52,860 --> 00:10:58,380 meetings include a full distribution if anything goes out keep it official the 123 00:10:58,380 --> 00:11:04,180 paperwork fill it out in full because when you guys hand write a six total but 124 00:11:04,180 --> 00:11:09,940 I don't see unexcused or excused I can't do anything with that yeah so I'm 125 00:11:09,940 --> 00:11:14,140 asking you guys you have forms follow the forms to the letter that's all I'm 126 00:11:14,140 --> 00:11:19,260 asking for used to follow the rules follow the processes fill out the forms 127 00:11:19,260 --> 00:11:26,100 that what I saw was a an attendance committee letter that Amber signed I I don't 128 00:11:26,100 --> 00:11:29,780 know who signature was because I didn't recognize the signature but an 129 00:11:29,780 --> 00:11:34,260 administrator signed it the child didn't sign it there was a little scribbled 130 00:11:34,260 --> 00:11:38,020 note that the child participated by the phone but there's no listing of 131 00:11:38,020 --> 00:11:49,660 unexcused and excused absences so why that was a legitimate question why wasn't 132 00:11:49,660 --> 00:11:55,580 the form filled out I thought you might go in so yeah because we were still 133 00:11:55,580 --> 00:12:00,780 figuring out the college one so I didn't want to write it wrong okay well if I 134 00:12:00,780 --> 00:12:04,540 would like to sign it I'd like to be in docu sign I want the kid signature on it 135 00:12:04,540 --> 00:12:08,700 so that I know the kid was actually present and that the kid is aware of this 136 00:12:08,700 --> 00:12:14,340 because she is turning 18 on August 19th I swear everything is going to change 137 00:12:14,340 --> 00:12:21,300 because we shift from family court to chapter 4200 Texas law and I've already 138 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:25,260 got the lawyers lined up I've got everybody lined up and we just moved to 139 00:12:25,260 --> 00:12:30,200 Smith County so I get to subpoena anybody and everybody within 150 mile 140 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,360 radius that has been involved with my child for the last four years because 141 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:38,380 the statute limitations for chapter 42 is four years so all this stuff that I 142 00:12:38,380 --> 00:12:42,900 have to deal with over the last four years is all gonna come to a head after my 143 00:12:42,900 --> 00:12:48,900 child terms 18 and now it's between me and my ex because slander and parental 144 00:12:48,900 --> 00:12:54,440 alienation and pushing me out of my child's life like why can't she be there 145 00:12:54,440 --> 00:13:02,520 at 730 school starts in 10 minutes I can't answer anything I know but you 146 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:07,360 understand what I'm saying why highly suspicious here's yeah here's what I 147 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:12,520 will say at the end I will include both at all times I assumed you knew and that 148 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:17,560 was the miss that was the big mistake I was figuring out the other one to be 149 00:13:17,560 --> 00:13:22,880 updated which is reasonable I will include both okay how many I'm gonna express 150 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:29,000 it again I've heard this conversation that I will be included every year every 151 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:33,200 semester this is the first semester of the fourth year at your school I've 152 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:38,320 heard this conversation and what happens is I look up and we're going to a 153 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:42,320 currency or I get e-mails with a currency officer and I had no clue because I'm 154 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,960 still I do I hear what you're saying okay thank you that's all I want to know 155 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:50,600 is this is what we can this is what I can do and then you go miss green you did 156 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:54,200 not include me on this one thing and you promised you would this is a problem 157 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:59,760 so let's deal with that when I I'm just I'm sharing with you the source of my 158 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:04,400 frustration for me this is four years this isn't just one meeting this is four 159 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:09,680 years of continuous and what's happening is I'm being portrayed as I refuse to 160 00:14:09,680 --> 00:14:15,400 sign I refused to sign from very explicit reasons and I made it very clear and 161 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:19,880 I have it in writing why I didn't sign it because I wanted one entry to be put 162 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:24,360 on that form because the form was incomplete and I said I was not going to 163 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,640 sign it just like I'm not going to sign this until you put the number of 164 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:32,160 unexcusing excuse so I'm not going to sign a form that's incomplete because you 165 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,720 guys can come in after the fact and make changes so I want a form that's 166 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:41,280 complete before I sign in that's just my legal protection yes I heard that I 167 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,120 did and I'll have a corrected now I heard that I heard the amount I know but 168 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:48,480 your presumption coming into this was last year we do this and I refused to 169 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,760 sign well I'm trying to share with you I didn't refuse to sign you guys 170 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:57,800 refused to fill out the form completely and therefore I didn't sign it I was 171 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:04,240 not the blocker yeah and and that is definitely how I could see how it sounded 172 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:10,200 well I have it all in writing so I mean yeah I know okay I know yeah but yeah I 173 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,520 would like everybody's signature on this I would like it completely filled out 174 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:21,520 more than happy I absences are an ongoing issue with this child I can share with 175 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:25,120 you that when we were married and living together and we're going to our 176 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:31,560 separation this exact same thing happened to our oldest daughter and so it to me 177 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:37,720 I've had five kids this is my youngest of five kids I've got 26 years of 178 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:43,080 experience with this across five children so I'm coming from a position of 179 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:48,680 knowledge expectations things like that and I'm just trying to convey if we all 180 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:53,520 follow the processes to the letter the way the laws the way the forms the way 181 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:57,600 everything was created is designed to protect children and we kind of muddy 182 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:03,000 over things kids fall through the cracks that's all I'm asking just fill out 183 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:08,600 the forms completely yeah I got to include and fill out the forms perfect and 184 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,160 from now on if there are any meetings make sure that I'm on the distribution if 185 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:17,440 I can't make it I will let you know and I will let you know my position if I 186 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:22,960 want you to reschedule or you know and they and then you guys can make that 187 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,440 decision based on actual knowledge and no assumptions I'm letting you know 188 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:31,740 and if I get if it's a if it's an important enough meeting I literally have 189 00:16:31,740 --> 00:16:34,960 driven all the way to Tyler Texas to sit in the meeting and turn around and 190 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:40,120 come back to Austin Texas I've always done that I've had times where you guys 191 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:44,360 are short on volunteers at the dances and I drove all the way up there 192 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:48,460 Shaplon to dance and turn around and drove all the way back my kids are 193 00:16:48,460 --> 00:16:54,760 important you come up on Fridays so is that not a possible regular like meeting 194 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:59,560 opportunity time is it in the afternoon is it when schools so it used to be I 195 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:04,120 scheduled everything and I tried to do doctor appointments but easily right now 196 00:17:04,120 --> 00:17:08,000 is somehow going through nutritional issues she went from the 20th percentile 197 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:12,200 weight now she's down below the first that they can't actually put zero so she's 198 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:16,000 in the first percentile of weight she's on four different medications nobody 199 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:21,040 else in our family sick we're all I'm a little guy but all of our kids have been 200 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:26,640 the 20th percentile since living in Tyler she's lost weight she's pasty she's 201 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:31,280 seeing a therapist on a weekly basis her nutrition is shot I went and got a 202 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:37,360 blood test her SHBGs are off the charts her I forgot what it's called 203 00:17:37,360 --> 00:17:41,840 cholesterol levels are like an old man I mean she is sickly as hell she's on 204 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,840 four different medications and I used to schedule the doctor appointments on 205 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:50,560 Fridays and I would pick her up Friday from school well once I was doing the 206 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:54,880 doctor stuff and intervening and getting her off the medications and getting 207 00:17:54,880 --> 00:18:00,360 her healthier suddenly I refused and she started making the appointments on 208 00:18:00,360 --> 00:18:04,600 Thursdays or Wednesdays because it's more difficult for me to take off in the 209 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:10,000 middle of the week and I was trying to make all of the appointments on Friday so 210 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:17,400 my life has been constantly magically they can't meet on Fridays why well she 211 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:23,260 can't deny the access if she knows I'm in town she can play stupid in a 212 00:18:23,260 --> 00:18:30,280 court of law which is what she's always done so yes Fridays I will come up I 213 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:36,480 I will if you guys give me more than a 24-hour notice I will come in person that 214 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:41,280 is how important this is to me and the reason why I scheduled for 730 on Friday 215 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:48,400 was that was the last window of a two-week heads up and I wasn't able to see my 216 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:52,120 daughter last Friday which happened to be my weekend but I gave him proper 217 00:18:52,120 --> 00:18:56,160 notice getting all this stuff I have to trade weekends my father got put in a 218 00:18:56,160 --> 00:19:00,880 memory care facility and I had to blow out and a car engine so I was stuck up 219 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:06,760 in Oklahoma and I asked to trade weekends and she was very ammo she's like oh 220 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:09,960 yeah that's great because it looks good in writing to say oh yeah we'll 221 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:15,760 trade weekends and I said this coming weekend which happened to be for this 222 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:20,080 meeting I was trying to coordinate everything so that she couldn't deny me 223 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:27,440 access and then suddenly she can't make Friday so there's a lot of games going 224 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:34,680 on that I have to deal with and I have to be very surgical about it but the 225 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:40,280 good news for me is chapter 42 takes over and all this stuff can go in court 226 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:44,400 of law and there's no recourse in family court it's civil court between two 227 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:51,600 individuals so I'm asking you guys to just follow your processes a lot of 228 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:56,400 forms will be good I hit you I love you guys I really enjoyed I don't like the 229 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,600 fact that I haven't been able to volunteer the last year but it's been very 230 00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:04,520 uncomfortable up there for whatever reason but I used to come up there for all 231 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,560 the dances first two years Mr. Chong Mr. Use class that came up there I brought 232 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:12,440 my rocket stuff up there I'm an aerospace engineer I used to come up and 233 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,600 volunteer to classes I'm still friends with a lot of students that have since 234 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:19,400 graduated they will call me and ask me for advice because that was a type of 235 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:24,600 impression I made on your students but now I can't even attend a meeting with 236 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:31,880 my child present and it's heartbreaking I got five kids and this is the one 237 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:36,320 child that none of the other siblings is like I talked to my son yesterday 238 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:41,880 it was as time he tied to your sister it's been over a year she's being 239 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:47,560 isolated from her family and we all know what that causes you guys you guys 240 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:53,200 take training about how to recognize emotional abuse goes through that list I 241 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,480 know it's on the t.a.gov website goes through that list there's like I think 242 00:20:56,480 --> 00:21:00,680 there's nine or 13 of them I think there's 13 and nine of amazingly exhibits 243 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:12,720 she's exhibited every year something there but she has a rest of her life and I'm 244 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:17,720 doing everything I can to protect her when she turned 18 again October 19th 245 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:24,280 it cannot get her face on over yeah yeah and my fear is that as soon as she 246 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:29,760 turns 18 Amber's gonna convince her to completely lock me out and as an adult 247 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:37,760 I will be completely isolated from all academic decisions so I haven't 248 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,800 heard that just say you know but I know that you know that I know the therapist 249 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:45,360 notes the therapist calls me periodically to give me an update as he's made it 250 00:21:45,360 --> 00:21:55,160 very clear than when she turns 18 she wants nothing to do with me but last year 251 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:59,000 she asked daddy to take a prom dressing in a shop around her during the 252 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:04,760 prom I was the driver for the prom I took her shopping that's what it was like 253 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:14,000 in March of just last year and by April she wants nothing to do with me so I 254 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,960 appreciate your time get the form filled out do I mean I can come up there and 255 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:23,960 sign it if you want to wet signature or you can use docu sign either way even 256 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:28,160 if he sent me a word document I've got a file that I can use for my signature 257 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:35,880 and I don't stop it's fine but that'll so it'll be it'll be docu sign okay I just 258 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:40,640 wait right if it'll be easier just to just grab a sleigh though and then and then 259 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:45,080 upload it so I'll figure it out on this end I appreciate you just keep me in the 260 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:50,520 loop and I keep me in the loop as long as you can yeah no well okay I see what 261 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:57,360 you're saying yep but I'll do those things I appreciate you absolutely bye